Love Made and Cooked in the African Christian Pot

This book demonstrates the complete soul in the joining of two persons, male and female (complete love within), as a volitional personal choice; as a contract (legal in terms of de jure and de facto system); as a psychological experience (enhancement of the being) and expectations (meeting needs and longings, in healthy and unhealthy terms; concerning some known and unknown underpinnings: coming from parenting experiences, as strengths and weakness as per the four parenting styles and as introjections and as projections; and having meanings in terms of behaviour, thinking, relating, feelings and functioning). The book demonstrates that love is made and cooked in ethnicity and culture and nature, nurture and personal growth and development, but also love is divine (Sacramental in nature, coming from the nature of God; for God is love. It is about the complexities of love: in theory and practice and, the realities of being in the bliss of love; and realities of betrayal, loss, grief; and the systems of coping and recovery processes in search of true love: for true love when found is the best that can happen to two persons: The best seed you can plant is love; with togetherness, joy and peace, unity, diversity and forgiveness.